Try going to a marriage counselor. If your husband protest, emphasize how an un-bias professional sometimes is the only thing that can save marriages in situations like your.

Because he care about you and the family, this may be something he is willing to try.

In the mean time do all you can to keep your spirits up.

It may be hard for him to rekindle the love he expressed before, when your feeling low and let down. Without realizing it, a partner can create the very condition in you that is blocking those once expressed loving feelings.

This type of strain often creates a vicious cycle. Sometimes women have to pick themselves up to break this type of negative pattern.

When your relationship is restored, then you can reveal to him what happened and how he contributed to the ill condition. Hopefully this will keep him from repeating the same mistake over again Getting over humps, stumbling stones and mountainous obstacles are the things that make marriages last.

You are not alone in facing problems like this. It is just a matter of how you address it.

What ever you do, know my prayers are with you.
God Bless
Lily